Went to the wake this afternoon. the relatives appear unaffected but there were evidences of mental trauma on friday night.
You seem well. Better than what I thought you will be but maybe ur putting on a brave front? Well who doesn't? Let it out if u need.

You said you may be feeling less upset if you hadn't witnessed her last breath. This reminds me of KM's wedding. I may not have teared had I not been one of her sisters who witnessed my bro-in-law open her room door to find her tearing of happiness. But I'm still glad I played a part on her big day.

Your mum would definitely have loved to have her loved ones beside her during her last moments.

We shall all learn to cherish our loved ones even more.

smiles..
ks

Fragile lives..

A close fren just told me his mum just passed away today. What a shock i suffered. I hope he'll be strong and help his family tide through this difficult period. She suffered from cancer and it finally took her life away today.

I've always known life to be fragile. but it's only when such incidents happen around me that actually reinforces that in me. I've since learnt to treat my family nicely so as not to regret when they leave me one day. Every time I think of my parents leaving me one day nv fails to bring tears to my eyes. I dunno how i will be able to cope when they're gone. Well..I hope they'll live a ripe old age and be with me as long as possible!

My advice to everyone..treat ur loved ones with respect and treat them nicely. =)

love,
ks